What Women Want?

My courageous attempt to try answering one of the priceless question that 14.5 billion years post big bang remains unanswered and a 14.5 trillion dollar economy of US can't buy!

WHAT WOMAN WANT?

Unapologetically I would answer these in 3 words...

Attention...Appreciation..Affirmation!

These are symptoms harvested of a much deeper problem from our upbringing of women.

Across the globe girls grow up hearing...
fair is good! dark is bad!
thin is good! fat is bad!
size 4-6 is perfect! everything else is not!..
Such list of goods and bads is longer than a toilet paper roll! (...which are just worth flushing!)

Subconsciously there are voids created in various sectors of a woman's persona. Brain, an involumtary organ as claimed by Science, tries to fill in these voids by seeking(fighting for! or is begging a better word?) attention, appreciation and affirmation!

Provoking?

Ok. Lets try and answer a few questions...

1. Control freak?
2. Won't like if your friend gets better attention from men/boyz than you?
3. Hurts when your friend is termed most beautiful woman of the class/workplace/"whatever scope"?
4. Pricks when your husband is having a great time with his female friend? (may be you have problems even if he is having a good time with his male friend/mother/relative/or evening come home a little late? )
5. Like to be the center of attention?
6. Like your husband/boyfriend/anyone for that matter to prove and prove and prove his/her love to you in all the craziest ways you can even imagine?
7. Prefers to confide in male friends than female friends?
8. Have tried a zillion ways to impress men for that little attention? Even watched cricket/read up science/ got alchoholic/ showed off a tomboy-cool attitude and many other gimmicks which would have made ways to your "like list" from your "not like" list...
9. Painful waxing? uncomfortable Jimmy Choos? almost breathless Prada? how about going under a knife?
10. Still thinking how you will get "that" guy pay attention to you? Reciprocate your feelings?

Have been a victim of such comments/symptoms/feelings?

These are manifestions of the inner voids women create as a function of time!

A woman is complete in herself. She has no reason to waste a precious life filling in the voids she has created which will only turn into craters as life progresses but these voids can never be filled by anyone than herself.

Scientific Gyan to this symptom!

We see an object go out of balance if the sum of all the energies in its space doesn't sum upto zero. A woman (who is nothing but a molecular mass close to thousand billion billion molecules) who channelizes all her energy into her own self in the form of creativity fulfilling herself that shines as a star through her enriched character is in equilibrium!

Philosophical Gyan to this symptom!

A soul has no gender! It only has a purpose! Its highest purpose is working towards excellence, perfection and in this progressive journey the soul shall remain focused towards its path of excellence (which surely isn't seeking attention, appreciation and affirmation from men!)

Back to bascis?
What do you want? Check!
Why do you want it? Check!
How does it ensure long term happiness? Check!

Self sufficiency! paripUrNa! -- as we are gifted either you are a believer of science or philosophy!

I write this as a token of gratitude to all those inspiring women who have lived their lives without enslaving themselves to such symptoms of demanding attention, appreciation and affirmation but have COMMANDED these due to their strength of character!